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Want The Best Season of Golf You Ever Had?

Want The Best Season of Golf You Ever Had?

 

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Sexual Health & healing : Am I Normal?

Sexual Health & healing : Am I Normal?

 

Am I Normal?
As a sex therapist, I get a lot of questions from people wanti...

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The Most Amazing Letter Ever

Maddie was my childhood chum, best friends forever.  From children to adults,  we shared our funniest moments, our darkest secrets, the angst of aging mothers, and stories about men.  Enter Jack.

Maddie and Jack met at the Philadelphia Airport waiting in a food line.  They started a conversation, shared a table, and exchanged numbers.   Maddie was returning to Canada; Jack was returning to Georgia.  No problem. They wrote, rang up huge phone bills, e-mailed, and arranged flights, all in the name of love at first sight.

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Transcending Limitations

Working in a men’s prison, I reflect on the experience of being incarcerated.  The men can’t walk too far in one direction, can’t stand in groups on the yard, can’t watch cable television or research the internet or choose their meals. What they can’t do outnumbers what they can do by about 1000 to 1.

So many of them say they are angry about being in prison but they admit they were angry before they entered prison. They say it frustrates them that they can’t work for pay but admit they didn’t show up for work when they lived “on the streets.” They say that when they are released they will be happy but confess they never have been happy.

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Saying it with Flowers

I've yet to find a 12-step program to help me break my latest addiction -- reading (and enjoying!) historical fiction books AKA romance novels. Ah, escapism from my very hectic world!
 
It fascinates me how repressed people were back then, such as the Victorian era. (Although, a century from now I wonder how our social customs will be viewed!)
 
Repressed in that "don't hold my hand unless you are planning to marry me," "kiss me and we?ll be engaged by the end of the day," ...and let's just say "risque" behavior beyond that could have a young lady marked with a scarlet letter for the rest of her lifetime. (Oh wait, that's another book in itself!)

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